He ought to remain faceless.
I'm talking to you, dear woman.
I took a "Perfect Guy Survey" quiz on Bzoink. Click here to see the full set of questions. I just picked out a few. Keep reading and see my real post below.
1. What should be the impression given by his overall appearance?
funny, attractive, intelligent
2. Around how tall should he be?
Not sure how tall exactly but he should be taller than I am. (especially when I'm donning high heels)
3. How should he dress?
preppy, t-shirt & jeans, cool
4. Do you like hats on men?
Uhh, yeah.
5. Should he be neat and clean or a greaser?
squeaky clean. haha.
6. Are there any traits you find particularly attractive?
thoughtful and caring, loves children
7. Are there any traits you find particularly unattractive?
He shouldn't be rude, sarcastic, a show-off and short-tempered
8. Are there any physical traits I've missed, but you feel should be mentioned?
Should have a great smile and attractive eyes ;)
9. What is the single most important personality trait you look for?
It's not actually a trait but something HE SHOULD BE. (PM me for details, Haha)
10. What personality trait do you find most unpleasant?
childish, stubborn and arrogant - I ought to give one answer, right? But they all come in one package.
11. What are some areas of interest you would like him to share with you?
faith, passion for God, music, writing and tech stuff
12. Is sense of humor important to you? Elaborate.
Yes. Ayoko ng corny, yun lang.
13. Do you want a man with a protective personality?
Yeah.
14. Would you object to a passion for sports?
Why should I?
15. Would you get jealous when he goes out with the guys?
With good guys? No.
16. Should he know what you're feeling without you telling him?
He isn't a god, is he?
17. Is it important to you that he buy you gifts?
He can buy me the moon and some balloons. ;p
18. Is his level of intelligence important?
Yes.
19. Would you want him to be smarter than you?
At some level perhaps.
20. Is it important that he shares your beliefs?
YEEEEEESSSSSSSSS! What's important is his love for Jesus.
21. Would you want him to be a college graduate?
Yeah.
My point being:
These are all but ideals. We can answer all the Perfect Guy survey questions in the world but one guy can't really have it all. He might have the perfect smile but he'll be stubborn, he might have the swagger but he'll be unpredictable, he might be loving but he will be impatient, he might be passion-filled but he'll sing out of tune, etc. He will definitely fall a few lines below the yellow bar or will flunk even. To simply put it, he will never, EVER be perfect. But you know what, if he's the one whom God has prepared for you, he won't be just an 'ideal' but an IDEA. A perfect idea of Him who is the Author. Wouldn't you want to wait for that guy?
The problem with most women is, we (myself included) often go for what's pwede na until one day, it just becomes pwede ba? tantanan mo na ko! We get hurt and we find ourselves at the losing end. It's not bad to hope and pray for your wants but it's time to become mature on love (refer to answer no. 20). Never pick a lesser man and just let God finish writing your love story. At the end, when you meet him and see his face, you'll say he's worth the wait.
But for now and I say this again:
He ought to remain faceless.
I'm talking to you, dear woman.
P.S. Thanks for visiting. Don't forget to leave your comments. Thank you. Sa tagalog, wag ka ng mahiya! Hehe!
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